Thursday, October 13, 2011

It Was Just A Card

It's mid-morning and the rest of it is tightly scheduled. I have just enough time to get from a to b to c, then to pick up my half-day Pre-Kindergartner. I coax the two littlest ones out the door and leave behind the card that catches my eye.

We back out of the driveway and head down the road, me on a mission, they along for the ride. About a half mile down the road the three-year-old whimpers from behind, "I forgot my birthday card."

Oh, he remembered. That power rangers card that he carries around everywhere because the characters speak at the push of a button.

I look through the rear view mirror, "I'm sorry we forgot it, honey. It will be safe for you at home."

"Nooo. Turn around, mom," he whimpers.

I contemplate all that I have to accomplish. I don't want to turn around. I don't have ten or even five extra minutes. It's a card, after all. Just a card.

I glance through the rear view mirror once again to witness the concern in his eyes and through them I see his little heart.

I sigh deep to slow my momentum and begin to shuffle around tasks in my head, re-figuring  those time-allotted puzzle pieces.

I spot a driveway ahead and hang a left. I turn around to go get that card. Not because I'm such a softy or because I cater to my children's beckon call or because this is always how I respond. But because at the end of the day, out of everything that I had accomplished, I realize that my biggest accomplishment will always be in the ways I slowed down enough to cultivate the heart of a child.

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9 comments:

  1. I love this story. We never know what things our kids will remember . . . but you are certainly sowing seeds of love.

    Fondly,
    Glenda

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  2. I love this sentence...I wish I understood this more when my kids were young.... But because at the end of the day, out of everything that I had accomplished, I realize that my biggest accomplishment will always be in the ways I slowed down enough to cultivate the heart of a child.
    Keep this tight in your heart....
    Blessings~

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  3. You managed to convict and encourage me in the same sentence. Well done.

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  4. oh wow. i love that you looked in the rear-view mirror and saw him. i love that you turned around.

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  5. I can't tell you how many times I have made that trip back. It's worth it!

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  6. I am savoring your last line.. and making it my prayer, as well.. if only we could always define "accomplishment" in terms of love instead of our "to-do" list. Thanks for the inspiration!

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  7. You, my dear, are such a great example to mamas everywhere. Especially since this very morning, I said to MY SON, "No! No, you ABSOLUTELY CANNOT take your $60 spy watch with all the cool gadgets to school today! It'll get broken, and then you'll be out sixty clams!" And he looked at me with such sadness -- probably the EXACT SAME LOOK that Drew gave to you! -- and off we went, MINUS THE WATCH. So yes. The $60 watch-full-o'-gizmos is safe and sound at home, and my boy's heart was a little saddened on the drive to school. It's just a birthday card... And it's just a watch... And probably tomorrow I'll do things differently. (Except tomorrow is Saturday, so no fear that the watch will head to school THEN!) Thanks for your words of encouragement!

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  8. Theresa:

    Those little ones will be grown up all too soon. Taking the time to slow down and turn around is worth more than all the rushing through life. I love what you said about cultivating the heart of a child.

    Thanks for linking at the Grace Cafe today!

    Blessings,
    Joan

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  9. Oh I love this! Its so important that we slow down for our children.. thank you for sharing this.

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