We back out of the driveway and head down the road, me on a mission, they along for the ride. About a half mile down the road the three-year-old whimpers from behind, "I forgot my birthday card."
Oh, he remembered. That power rangers card that he carries around everywhere because the characters speak at the push of a button.
I look through the rear view mirror, "I'm sorry we forgot it, honey. It will be safe for you at home."
"Nooo. Turn around, mom," he whimpers.
I contemplate all that I have to accomplish. I don't want to turn around. I don't have ten or even five extra minutes. It's a card, after all. Just a card.
I glance through the rear view mirror once again to witness the concern in his eyes and through them I see his little heart.
I sigh deep to slow my momentum and begin to shuffle around tasks in my head, re-figuring those time-allotted puzzle pieces.
I spot a driveway ahead and hang a left. I turn around to go get that card. Not because I'm such a softy or because I cater to my children's beckon call or because this is always how I respond. But because at the end of the day, out of everything that I had accomplished, I realize that my biggest accomplishment will always be in the ways I slowed down enough to cultivate the heart of a child.
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I love this story. We never know what things our kids will remember . . . but you are certainly sowing seeds of love.
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Glenda
I love this sentence...I wish I understood this more when my kids were young.... But because at the end of the day, out of everything that I had accomplished, I realize that my biggest accomplishment will always be in the ways I slowed down enough to cultivate the heart of a child.
ReplyDeleteKeep this tight in your heart....
Blessings~
You managed to convict and encourage me in the same sentence. Well done.
ReplyDeleteoh wow. i love that you looked in the rear-view mirror and saw him. i love that you turned around.
ReplyDeleteI can't tell you how many times I have made that trip back. It's worth it!
ReplyDeleteI am savoring your last line.. and making it my prayer, as well.. if only we could always define "accomplishment" in terms of love instead of our "to-do" list. Thanks for the inspiration!
ReplyDeleteYou, my dear, are such a great example to mamas everywhere. Especially since this very morning, I said to MY SON, "No! No, you ABSOLUTELY CANNOT take your $60 spy watch with all the cool gadgets to school today! It'll get broken, and then you'll be out sixty clams!" And he looked at me with such sadness -- probably the EXACT SAME LOOK that Drew gave to you! -- and off we went, MINUS THE WATCH. So yes. The $60 watch-full-o'-gizmos is safe and sound at home, and my boy's heart was a little saddened on the drive to school. It's just a birthday card... And it's just a watch... And probably tomorrow I'll do things differently. (Except tomorrow is Saturday, so no fear that the watch will head to school THEN!) Thanks for your words of encouragement!
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ReplyDeleteThose little ones will be grown up all too soon. Taking the time to slow down and turn around is worth more than all the rushing through life. I love what you said about cultivating the heart of a child.
Thanks for linking at the Grace Cafe today!
Blessings,
Joan
Oh I love this! Its so important that we slow down for our children.. thank you for sharing this.
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